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    Should a Husband/Wife Confront Their Cheating Spouses Lover?

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    Post by Marc™ on Fri Oct 22, 2010 10:05 am

    If your spouse cheated on you....would you confront their lover?



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    Post by Supernova on Fri Oct 22, 2010 10:08 am

    Oh hell yes I would.
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    Post by Marc™ on Fri Oct 22, 2010 10:15 am

    ^ What would you say/do to her?



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    Post by RedBedroom on Fri Oct 22, 2010 11:40 am

    I probably would not unless she was someone that I already knew. Granted, it is her fault for choosing to be with a married man, but it is all on him for the betrayal if I did not know her too.
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    Post by Supernova on Fri Oct 22, 2010 2:50 pm

    RedBedroom wrote:I probably would not unless she was someone that I already knew. Granted, it is her fault for choosing to be with a married man, but it is all on him for the betrayal if I did not know her too.



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    Post by Nystyle709 on Fri Oct 22, 2010 6:47 pm

    Marc wrote:If your spouse cheated on you....would you confront their lover?


    If I knew her well and she knew I was married, I would. If I knew of her and didn't know her personally, I wouldn't spend any energy on her. My beef would be 98% with him if I did know her and 100% if I didn't.
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    Post by Alan Smithee on Fri Oct 22, 2010 9:51 pm

    Marc wrote:^ What would you say/do to her?


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    Post by MandyPerfumeGirl on Sat Oct 23, 2010 3:37 pm

    If I was married and my husband was cheating on me, I wouldn't say anything to the woman. I think there's nothing more foolish than two grown women fighting over a man, particularly a cheating one. I would promptly serve him with divorce papers and that would be it.



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    Post by CeCe on Sat Oct 23, 2010 4:27 pm

    MandyPerfumeGirl wrote:If I was married and my husband was cheating on me, I wouldn't say anything to the woman. I think there's nothing more foolish than two grown women fighting over a man, particularly a cheating one.


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    Post by jstone on Sat Oct 23, 2010 5:03 pm

    It depends on who it is. If its a stranger I would not bother. If its a good friend I loved I would confront them. The confrontation would focus on their betrayal of our friendship and trust.
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    Post by AtownPeep on Sat Oct 23, 2010 9:24 pm

    If I walked in ON my husband in the throes of passion with his mistress I would take a second to get in her face, but I wouldn't seek the bitch out if I never met or saw her. The truly guilty one is the cheater. He gets the biggest frying pan upside the head.



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