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    Post by Chris on Fri Aug 12, 2011 7:51 am

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    My 14 year old son has recently came to me and asked me how to masturbate. I was not sure what to do so I said i'm not sure. He asked me again yesterday. Should I show him how by letting him watch me? HELP! What should I do? I told my wife about him asking and she said that she didn't know what to say. What should i do?


    LMAO!
    I have never even heard my father say the word masturbate.

    Seriously, though, folks; should parents – I don't wanna say, 'teach,' because that sounds incestuous – endorse masturbation (particularly if they don't want the child to be sexually active?)




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    Post by Shale on Fri Aug 12, 2011 8:01 am

    Chris wrote:...

    Seriously, though, folks; should parents – I don't wanna say, 'teach,' because that sounds incestuous – endorse masturbation (particularly if they don't want the child to be sexually active?)

    There is no 'edorse' about it, nor is there a way to prevent sexual activity when the time comes, usually about age 11.

    This sounds so bogus. I lived in a sexually repressive time when I came of age. No one taut us how to masturbate, we discovered it ourselves (after a few wet dreams). I woulda never inquired how - it just wasn't mentioned. In fact, for a while every time I did it a feeling of guilt followed. Finally grew out of that.




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    Post by femme fatale on Fri Aug 12, 2011 8:06 am

    Ummmm ewwwww
    Let them figure it out by themselves. Its not (excuse me) "hard". Most kids (excuse me again) "master" it by a certain age all by themselves!

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    Post by Alan Smithee on Fri Aug 12, 2011 8:06 am

    As funny as it sounds (and it is) at least it seems like the father and son have a good enough relationship that the kid could even bring the subject up. Unless the kid hates his father and just wants to watch him squirm.



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    Post by Forgiveness Man on Fri Aug 12, 2011 8:19 am

    Is this kid seriously asking or is he just trying to punish his Dad? I can't help but think the latter. I've never heard of a kid who is able to use the word and not know what the hell it is.

    But of course, I would never encourage a parent to teach or promote such things. If he's truly lucky enough that his kid doesn't know about it, I'd take that as a blessing and leave it be.



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    Post by Shale on Fri Aug 12, 2011 8:23 am

    Oh, and another thing that makes me think bogus. This kid lives in an area without electricity or THE INTERNET?

    I'm jealous of kids today. I had to go to my 20s before seeing any real porn in a magazine from Europe. Kids today can see what they are doing in Europe and since the '60s the U.S. in an instant. Including guys with boners in their hand jerking off.




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    Post by Supernova on Fri Aug 12, 2011 8:28 am

    I think parents need to get past their embarrassment and talk to their kids about it, it is a fact of life, it's normal, everybody does it...though there's something odd, for knowing that everybody does it, to hear people talk, it only applies to boys, why is that?

    I actually liked the way the grandpa handled that matter on House of Payne:

    Lock the door

    Wash your hands

    Don't tell nobody


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    Post by AtownPeep on Fri Aug 12, 2011 8:33 am

    IMO that's something that parents really don't need to speak on because kids are gonna discover on their own and unlike sex, there's no unsafe way to do it (unless you're just being reckless) so there's no need to educate on it. At the most I think parents should just I guess be willing to answer questions.

    I don't know! LOL
    Why the hell did I try and get in the middle of this weird and uncomfortable topic?

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    Post by Shale on Fri Aug 12, 2011 8:38 am

    Here boy, when it does this ...

    dick rise

    You do this ...

    masturbate

    Enjoy and don't tell your mother.




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    Post by Nystyle709 on Fri Aug 12, 2011 9:03 am

    Eh, if my son or daughter were to bring it up....I'd tell them what it is. I don't think you can 'teach' someone how to masturbate. I'd just tell them to do it if you want to do it and I don't need to know the details. My daughter can't borrow Victor however.



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    Post by Hyacinth Girl on Fri Aug 12, 2011 9:48 am

    This sounds like a great topic for a Monty Python skit. . .

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    Post by Supernova on Fri Aug 12, 2011 9:51 am

    AtownPeep wrote:IMO that's something that parents really don't need to speak on because kids are gonna discover on their own and unlike sex, there's no unsafe way to do it (unless you're just being reckless) so there's no need to educate on it. At the most I think parents should just I guess be willing to answer questions.

    I don't know! LOL
    Why the hell did I try and get in the middle of this weird and uncomfortable topic?

    Bye now.

    This is definitely true, however if the subject comes to light, there is a right and wrong way to handle it, and that's what I think parents need to be ready for. I remember reading in one of Dr. Ruth's books she said something about the way people feel about sex depends on how adults talked to them about it when they were kids, if they were taught it was normal, if they were told it was wrong, it was bad, etc.

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    Post by Cheaps on Fri Aug 12, 2011 11:22 am

    AtownPeep wrote:IMO that's something that parents really don't need to speak on because kids are gonna discover on their own and unlike sex, there's no unsafe way to do it (unless you're just being reckless) so there's no need to educate on it. At the most I think parents should just I guess be willing to answer questions.

    I don't know! LOL
    Why the hell did I try and get in the middle of this weird and uncomfortable topic?

    Bye now.

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    Post by Nystyle709 on Fri Aug 12, 2011 7:09 pm

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    Post by RedBedroom on Fri Aug 12, 2011 10:15 pm

    Nah, I don't think it needs to be taught. Or ever spoken about.

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    Post by GrayWolf on Fri Aug 12, 2011 11:00 pm

    As tight as me and my old man are...no
    Some things a boy should become a pro at on his own.

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    Post by captainbryce on Sat Aug 13, 2011 12:38 am

    1) Any boy over the age of 12 who knows what "masturbation" means, is already doing it! ROUTINELY!

    2) There is no need for anyone to be "taught" how to masturbate. Most kids figure it out on their own. It's one of those little biological facts of life. And if they're dumb enough NOT to be able to figure it out for themselves, then they don't deserve to reap the benefits of it.

    3) It's always nice when parents can be open and honest with their children, but some lines need to be drawn (if only to save the embarrassment). Any kid that is so desperate to know "how" to masturbate is better off seeking advice from a male friend his own age, not "dad".

    4) I'm pretty sure that the prudish, sexually infantile society we live in would consider any such "instruction" to be an illegal, incestrous form of "child abuse", so from a legal standpoint you probably shouldn't be exposing yourself to them sexually or having them expose themselves in front of you sexually.

    5) I am all for the "endorsement" of masturbation (at any age). In fact, if you don't want your kid to be sexually active at a young age, you should only HOPE they are masturbating and only masturbating until they are emotionally prepaired for the consequences of having sex.

    6) This is how my masturbation instruction would go:
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=toWLCHDSMKI

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    Post by JM130ELM on Sat Aug 13, 2011 2:22 am

    Can't co-sign that one bruh. A boys old dude should be on hand to answer any general questions he might have about it, but there needn't be any instructions (or worse.)



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    Post by captainbryce on Sun Aug 14, 2011 12:36 pm

    JM130ELM wrote:Can't co-sign that one bruh. A boys old dude should be on hand to answer any general questions he might have about it, but there needn't be any instructions (or worse.)
    That's what I meant. Answering "questions" is just fine. Actual "instruction" isn't!

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    Post by Chris on Fri Aug 19, 2011 9:19 am

    GrayWolf wrote:As tight as me and my old man are...no
    Some things a boy should become a pro at on his own.

    Agreed.



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    Post by Tony Marino on Fri Aug 19, 2011 9:22 am

    Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow! Wow!

    I could never even breach the subject of masturbation with my father let alone expect a live lesson. That would be in the Ewwwww category. Leave the kid alone let him learn naturally from other boys or on his own. Answering questions is o.k. but not a live demonstration!




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    Post by Shale on Fri Aug 19, 2011 10:04 am

    I still say that whererver this question comes from it is a Troll.

    My 14-year-old son??? (He's been jacking off for at least three years now)

    This is not the 19th Century. We have the Internet for inquiring minds. Any 14-year-old or 11-year-old in this century can find this.

    http://www.jackinworld.com/




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